Today someone pointed out a flaw I already knew I had. And for a while it hurt me and embarrassed me. I know they didn’t mean it that way but it made me think. When and why did it become acceptable to point out physical things that are not easily fixable in others?

I wanted to cry and shout ‘You think I don’t see it every time I look in the mirror?!’ but then I realized, it’s not their fault I have this insecurity. All I can do is let them know how their words and behaviour made me feel about myself and hope that they choose to be more conscious next time. I love my body and I am proud of its capabilities but sometimes the words still affect me.

For reference, can we all just agree to let physical ‘flaws’ live in peace? May we only make a comment on something that can be adjusted, like lipstick on teeth. Even then, let it come from a place of absolute love and genuine kindness rather than as a tool to embarrass or draw attention.

Thank you.